Nowadays, every time I bump into friends or relatives, I’d be asked the inevitable question that begins with the tell-it-all “SooOOooOoo…”
Which will usually follow with one of the following
“Dah ada apa-apa ke?”
“Are you baking anything yet?”
“Dah ada isi?”
“Are the juniors coming yet?”
“We all dah ada cucu, you bila nak bagi parents you cucu?”
And the all time favourite…
“wei kau dah pregnant belom??”
Hhahahahhaha… serious kelakar. It’s becoming like a compulsory question when people see me.
I was reading a post by my friend the other day, and I feel like I could totally relate to whatever she was rambling about.
Although I don’t go all the way as to drink Anmum or such things, I do try my best to eat well but so far, the fasting month has taken it’s toll on me. Everyone keeps telling me that I have to put on more weight if I want to conceive but I’ve been struggling with my weight since forever! It’s not that I don’t eat, most of my friends would testify that I eat like a horse, but I just can’t seem to put It took me the whole of last year to put on a decent three and a half kilos and after 10 days of fasting, I’ve lost all that 3 kilos.
So I guess come raya, I have to start my efforts all over again which is fine by me 🙂 We’ve got to work for what we want, right?
People, I’m as eager (in fact, even more) as all of you in having my own offspring, but till the Big Guy Up There decides that it’s time he gives me that wonderful gift from heaven, all I can do is put in my best efforts.. and wait 🙂